Bulletin for 2019-12-29. St. Stephen
Dear brothers and sisters,
In these days, we officially come to the conclusion of our jubilee celebration for the 50th anniversary of the establishment of the Eparchy of Parma by Pope Paul VI in February 1969. It is a time to be grateful for all that our Lord has given us, as well as a time to reflect on the direction we will take in our eparchy. I have mentioned these ideas in my pastoral letters, both at the beginning of the jubilee year in January and at the beginning of the church year in September.
In these days, we also celebrate the feast of the Nativity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, which is the expression of God’s grace. God the Father again offers us his love through his Son in the Holy Spirit. The mission of the church is to proclaim this joyful news to all people and to encourage each one of us to live our faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Son, who was incarnate by the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary. He became one of us, he walked among us, and he walks alongside us still.
Our Byzantine liturgy offers us the liturgical texts that reveal to us the true meaning of Christmas, preceded by the preparatory period of 40 days of fasting and prayer, called the Philip’s Fast (Filipovka). A few texts in this pre-festive season help to bring forth the deeper meaning of this liturgical season and, in this way, help us to understand the mystery of Christ’s birth. The stichera from Matins for the Pre-Feast of the Nativity of Our Lord for Dec. 20 is one example. It summarizes our profession of faith in Jesus Christ, who is at the center of our faith and of our life. It is a very profound and beautiful text that was composed with passages from the Word of God, which is the source of our Christian life. It is a stichera that we sing but, more importantly, it is the stichera that we are supposed to live in our personal lives and in our families. I offer you some thoughts that are in my heart for your reflection, because they render the true meaning of this feast day.
We sing the following: “Make ready, cave, for the ewe lamb comes, bearing Christ in her womb. Receive, manger, Him Who by a Word has released the dwellers of earth from lawlessness. Shepherds, abiding in the fields, bear witness to the fearful wonder; Magi from Persia, offer to the King, gold, myrrh, and frankincense, for the Lord has appeared from a Virgin Mother, and she, bending over Him as a handmaiden, worshiped Him as He lay in her arms, saying to Him: How were You sown as seed in me? How have You grown within me, my Deliverer and my God?”
As in other sticheras, we find here not only persons as the protagonists of the story, but objects as examples and figures of different realities. What do the persons or the objects in this text truly represent: the cave, the manger, the shepherds, the magi, and the Theotokos, who is called “the ewe lamb” and “Virgin Mother”?
This stichera paraphrases passages from the gospels of Luke (cf. Lk 2:1-20) and Matthew (cf. Mt 2:1-12) and includes symbolism that is worthy to consider.
Let’s take a look at the cave that is being addressed in the second person, “Make ready, cave.” In the original Greek, these words mean to “get ready with reverence” or to “get ready appropriately.” The message to the cave to “get ready” and to prepare, is the same message that is given to the church and to us. We, too, must “get ready.” To receive whom? To receive Christ, the Lamb, who is brought by his Mother, the ewe lamb, the same words used to refer to Mary in the sticheras of Great and Holy Week.
Every Christian is supposed to get ready in the proper way, with a good confession, before receiving the Holy Gifts — the Eucharist at the Divine Liturgy. Let this phrase resonate in our heart: “Make ready, prepare yourself.”
And then let us ask ourselves: How did we prepare for the feast of the Nativity of our Lord? How do we prepare for receiving the Holy Eucharist during the year? When was the last time we went to confession?
If we want to receive the real Christ in the Eucharist every Sunday, we should go to holy confession at least once a month. Otherwise, we are receiving the Holy Gifts unworthily and we are risking our salvation. When we feel that we are not in the grace of receiving Holy Communion because we did not forgive someone, or we are holding grudges, or living adulterously, or because of some other serious sin, then it is better not to receive Holy Communion, to stay in the pew, and then to ask the priest to hear our confession. This, too, is the real preparation of the cave for the coming of Christ, according to the teaching of the Catholic Church.
The image of the manger, as we know from iconography, symbolizes the tomb, the sarcophagus, and foretells the death of Jesus. The shepherds, who stay overnight on the fields in seclusion, are challenged to be the witnesses, to move from isolation to community. The magi are paralleled with the myrrh-bearing women. They bring the gifts to the One, who one day will be received by another cave, by another manger: his tomb.
Just as the image of the cave, which represents the church, must prepare and “get ready,” so do we, this Christmas and each day of our Christian life, need to be ready. For whom or for what? To worthily receive Christ and to witness to him with reverence, not only to ourselves but also to others.
This is where I want to turn your attention: Christmas has become the subject in this world to profane celebration. It has become very pagan and it is the subject of business, not only in consumer society but at its core. Let us not forget that we are celebrating Christ and him alone. We should never forget that the most valuable gift for Christians is Christ himself.
The message is clear. We must witness Christ and live and act as Christians, not in isolation or in the small group where we feel safe, but in the church community, with all the positives and negatives that we have. Let us try during this Christmas season, in peace and without fear, to see clearly the source of unity within ourselves, with others, and with the Lord. Also let us try to see the obstacles that we have in our relationship with the Lord, with others, and within ourselves: the sin of isolation in our parishes, the sin of humiliating others, the sin of gossip, or the sin of ignoring the good.
This Christmas, and at the beginning of the new civil year, I would like to encourage you to never get tired of starting to love again. The reason is simple. We are Christians. Our God perpetually loves his people. He desires nothing but our salvation. Our faith constantly reminds us that God loves us and he gives us the opportunity to love every day of our lives. This is why I am encouraging you, brothers and sisters, to look at your life with faith, hope and love. Search for small and big signs of rebirth, signs of new life, which are given to us by God.
I pray all priests, deacons, nuns, and faithful have a blessed feast of the birth of Christ and a happy New Year.
+Milan Lach, SJ
Bishop of the Eparchy of Parma
Our Lord and God Jesus, for whom and by whom all things exist – through whom the Father brings us out of nonexistence into being – is not ashamed to call us his brothers and sisters. He partakes of our nature. He has a full share of our flesh and blood – just the way it is, even in that it is subjected to death. Through our fear of this death, we have been enslaved to our passions and sins our whole life long. So, he becomes like us even in this mortality so as to free us from our enslavement. (Heb 2:10,11,14). If we are in Christ, we no longer fear death.
The book of the generation of Jesus Christ – the beginning of the Gospel according to Matthew – profoundly underscores the extent to which Jesus Christ identifies himself with us – even with our weakness and enslavement. Behold the type of ancestors through whom he becomes a man.
He takes the form of a slave – of a man doomed to die. The one who makes man in his likeness is born in the likeness of man – and not some deathless prelapsarian man – but one who suffers the effects of our sins and even one who dies – “a slave… obedient unto death, even death on a cross” (Phil 2:7-8). He is the new Adam, subjecting himself to the world as we’ve made it and thereby making it all anew. He is not the old Adam before his fall. Paul goes so far as to say that Jesus becomes sin for us. “For our sake, he made him to be sin who knew no sin, so that in him we might become the righteousness of God” (2 Cor 5:21).
St. Ambrose writes that he who takes on the sins of all was born in the flesh, was subject to wrongs and pain, and he did not refuse the further humiliation of a sinful parentage – because this did not detract from his holiness in any way. Now, it should not shame us – the Church – to be gathered from among sinners, because the Lord himself was born of sinners. The benefits of redemption in the Lord begin with his own forefathers. Let none imagine that a stain in the blood is any hindrance to virtue, nor again any pride themselves insolently on nobility of birth (paraphrased).
How clear Matthew makes this for us today – with his survey of Jesus Christ’s ancestors on this Sunday of his Holy Fathers, so many of whom show forth for us what it is to be mortal, impassioned, corruptible, and sinful, even as they also exemplify for us what it is to be faithful and hopeful, repentant and righteous.
St. Jerome points out that, interestingly, many holy ones are passed over in Matthew’s genealogy of Jesus while many “taken into the Savior’s genealogy [are] such as Scripture has condemned, that He who came for sinners being born of sinners might so put away the sins of all.”
Take, for example, Judah and Tamar. St. John Chrysostom points out their sin of incest but, to my mind, that’s like the tip of the iceberg. Read their story in Genesis 38, to see what I’m talking about. Only, maybe don’t read it to your children. To incest may be added the sins of injustice, deception, and harlotry. These are the ancestors of Jesus Christ.
And then there is David – one of the primary ancestors to whom – as to Abraham – the Lord made promises that are finally and ultimately fulfilled in Jesus Christ. Yet, even this great and all-important ancestor was also great at sinning, just like us.
“David conceived Solomon with a woman with whom he had committed adultery,” says John Chrysostom. To adultery may be added the murder of Uriah, Bathsheba’s husband (2 Sam 11).
Notice too that not only are sinners mentioned here, but also specifically sinners whose sins resulted in the conception of the ancestors of Christ. Sinful actions themselves result ultimately in the conception of Christ, by the grace of God.
This is how God works. He turns all things around to the good. He works through us when we strive for the good and also even when we vainly strive against the good. He brings greater good out of good – and even good out of evil – and even the greatest good out the greatest evil. Incarnation out of adultery and incest. Resurrection out of crucifixion and death.
If we could all see our own complete genealogies, I am sure we would all find many examples of holiness and virtue, but I’m also quite sure we would all soon discover that somewhere along the line, all of our own conceptions – like that of Jesus Christ – are the result of others’ sins. Yet, despite any sin, every conception is holy. And no stain in the blood hinders virtue, as Ambrose says. Every conception is an act of God, despite any human or sinful actions that lead to it. God does his work amongst us as we are. God is with us. He overshadows us. He overcomes us. He overcomes any bad intentions of ours with his great holiness. He even becomes us – a man like us in all things but sin.
As a man, Jesus Christ is generated. He has genealogy, just like us. Bearing that in mind, listen to this: Isaiah prophesies about the suffering servant, the coming Divine Messiah, who we know is Jesus Christ. He prophesies, “Who shall declare his generation?” (53:8). God is not generated, you see. He has no beginning. None, therefore, can declare his generation. So, what is Matthew doing beginning his gospel with the book of the generation of Jesus Christ? St. Jerome says that Isaiah shows us that there is no generation of the divine nature but that St. Matthew shows us the generation of his human nature. Jesus Christ is both God and Man. In Christ, God has ancestors and Matthew declares his human generation.
Now, as a man and through all his ancestors, God is with us!
Jesus Christ is flesh and blood. He’s not a phantasm. In the early centuries of the Church, there were many who denied the reality of Christ’s human nature. These heretics were called Docetists – because they believed that Jesus only seemed to be human. We still often encounter a kind of soft-Docetism these days when we hear people speak dismissively of Christ’s faithfulness and holiness and sinlessness and miracle-working saying things like, “Well, of course, Jesus can do these things – he’s God.”
It’s true that Jesus is God. Yet, it is also true that Jesus is Man. We must not pretend to have mastered this mystery, to comprehend the incomprehensible, to speak knowingly of the ineffable, to conceive the inconceivable, to fully grasp the paradox of the incarnation. That would cheapen it – subjecting God and His workings to our own understanding – as if his being were subject to us and not beyond us.
Jesus Christ is fully human. The goodness of his humanity is fully human. He shows forth and makes possible the possibility of us being good and true and beautiful in him. We must not say, “Oh, goodness is for Jesus but not for me – I cannot be held to his standard, he is God and I am not.” We must not say this because what he is by nature – divine – we are to become by grace. Our theosis is the whole point of his incarnation. He partakes of our human nature so that we may become partakers of his divine nature (Heb 2:14; 2 Peter 1:4).
He became like us just as we are in all things but sin, and, even though he is no sinner, he became even sin. He is able to sympathize with our weaknesses and in every respect has been tempted as we are, yet without sinning (Heb 4:15). No matter what depravity we have sunk to, we are not without hope in Christ. If we have hit bottom, he will lift us up. Even if we have died, in him we will rise again. “Let us then with confidence draw near to the throne of grace, that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need” (Heb 4:16).
“I want my house to be full,” says the host of the banquet (Luke 14:23). I hear that. I want our house to be full.
Most people these days call the buildings in which we gather to worship God “churches.” Many people of our particular Church, particularly in the old countries, actually call them “temples,” not “churches.” The Church is the people of God gathered together to worship God. The temple is the place of sacrifice to the Lord. But in the ancient church, it’s interesting to note, the building in which we gather would have been called neither a church nor a temple.
The church, as I say, is the people of God gathered together to worship God, and not the building in which we worship him. As for the temple, there was only ever one building that was a temple – the temple that the Lord commanded be built in Jerusalem. That temple has not been replaced by these buildings in which we worship God, it has been fulfilled by our bodies. Our bodies are the temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Cor 6:19). We now worship God in spirit and in truth. Our bodies are for worshipping God. The Lord dwells in our bodies through the holy mysteries of the Church. Through the Eucharist especially, he comes to dwell inside of us – in our hearts. When we receive communion, our heart becomes the tabernacle of the Lord in the temple of the Lord.
So, if these buildings would have been called neither church nor temple, what would they have been called? – houses (οἶκοι). Christians first gathered in houses. This term is retained in our liturgy. Every time you hear the deacon praying “for this holy church and for all who enter it with faith, reverence, and the fear of God,” the original Greek word translated as “church” actually is οἶκος – house. The house of the Church. The house of the people of God gathered together to worship the Lord. And, I want the house to be full. The Lord talks about a house today and he says he wants it to be full.
By way of filling it, are we doing what Jesus tells us to do? Are we bringing in the poor and needy to share in our banquet? Or, do we think it’s for us but not for them? As we go about our lives, are we cajoling all we meet to join us and fill the house?
I want the house to be full. Don’t you? And I don’t care about it being full of money or full of people with money. I want it to be full of God’s people. All people. People in need. Also, the blind, the crippled, the lame, and the poor, says Jesus Christ himself (Luke 14:21). Are we doing everything we can to invite them? And to make our houses accessible to them – to the Church, which is the people, so that they can join us in the worship of almighty God? Are we offering to give them a ride? Are there people who want to come but can’t?
What could be more important than filling the house of the Lord with many to share in in his banquet? It doesn’t matter how much that costs. Let’s do all we’re able to toward that end.
The banquet in Jesus parable to us today is, of course, the heavenly banquet. But if it’s less clear, it’s also the banquet we celebrate at every Divine Liturgy. The Eucharistic banquet in which we participate is the heavenly banquet. There is no difference. It is the same banquet. The one that goes on in our houses is the same one going on in heaven. There’s a reason we call the liturgy Divine. It is an act of God. God is present there.
If you listen to the prayers of the Divine Liturgy, you’ll see that God himself has broken into our ordinary time and our ordinary life. He abolishes our earthly anxieties, if we let him. In the house of the Church, we occupy the time when the Lord has already come. The second coming is an accomplished act. It’s not only something we’re waiting for the future. The future is now. The past is now. We are present in Bethlehem at the birth of our Lord Jesus Christ in a stable in a cave in Bethlehem. We’re present also at his baptism in the River Jordan. And we’re present at the foot of his cross. And by his tomb. We’re present as he rises up out of the tomb. We’re present as he ascends again to the right hand of his Father in heaven. We’re present as the Holy Spirit descends upon us with his apostles. Here. Now. Today. We’re present as he comes again in glory. The Divine Liturgy is the heavenly banquet. It is not a rehearsal. It is not a drill. It is the one and only heavenly banquet.
So, do you ever make excuses as to why you cannot come? Let’s listen to Jesus’ parable about such excuses (Luke 14:16-21). He’s not buying it.
The ideal for us for Sundays and Great Feasts is to come and pray Vespers, Matins, and Divine Liturgy. “Evening, morning, and at noon, I will pray,” says the Psalmist (55:17). But we understand that circumstances make this difficult for most of us and impossible for some of us. So, if you can’t come to one, come to another. If you can’t come Sunday morning, come to Vespers Saturday evening. Participate to the extent you’re able. God sees the heart. He knows how legitimate your excuses are. Unlike us, he is a host who really knows those he has invited.
He knows also whether we doing what we can to bring others to the Lord. This is his command to us, remember. According to some research,[1] 82% of the unchurched say they would consider attending church if they were invited. At the same time, only 2% of people who go to church have invited a friend in the last year. As a result, seven out of ten unchurched people have lived their entire lives without ever having been invited to church by a friend.
The host in today’s parable instructs that we not only invite people to this banquet, but that we compel them to come in (Luke 14:23). Let’s invite and go beyond inviting. Let’s offer somebody a ride. Or, let’s offer to meet them at the church and show them around or walk in with them and sit with them. Make them comfortable. Answer their questions.
I also learned that not very many people come to church because they saw or heard an advertisement. That doesn’t mean we shouldn’t advertise. Even if only one person comes as a result, it’s worth spending quite a lot of money on advertising for the sake of that one person. We should advertise. But still it remains the case, that not a lot of people come to church because they saw an advertisement.
Also, perhaps more surprisingly to some, not a lot of people come to church because the pastor of that church invites them. That doesn’t mean I shouldn’t invite people. I should, I can, and I do. And it’s worth it. If only one person comes out of a thousand I invite, it’s worth inviting the thousand for the sake of the one. But still it’s the case that not a lot of people come to church because they’re invited by the pastor.
You know why most people actually come and join the church? It’s because they’re invited by a friend. This makes sense. Even Peter only came and saw Jesus because his brother invited him. Nathanael only came and saw Jesus because his friend Philip invited him (John 1:40-51).
What works is inviting our family and our friends again and again – people who know that we love them. That’s the key that makes all the difference in evangelization – love. If our house isn’t built out of love, then what is it built out of? If it’s built of something other than love, then we should certainly stop calling it a church.
[1] Thom S. Rainer, The Unchurched Next Door
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