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Pastoral Letter on the Sunday After Christmas – Commemoration of the Holy King David, Saint Joseph the Betrothed, and James the Brother of the Lord

December 27, 2020 By Fr. John R.P. Russell Leave a Comment

Christmas Pastoral Letter 2020

 

Christ is Born! Glorify Him!

Dear Brothers and Sisters, this Christmas of 2020 is different for many of us. We still have limitations and restrictions due to the COVID-19 pandemic. This year, many of us were sick or we knew somebody who was sick or even died from this coronavirus. Many of us are scared and we do not know what to expect in the future. We do not understand what is happening; we do not know what to do. But Jesus Christ and the season of Christmas are here and we need to listen to His message of hope and peace. It is the message which God is giving to us through His Word, through His only-begotten Son.

On December 8, 2020, Pope Francis declared 2021 as the Year of Saint Joseph, patron of the entire universal Church. In the Eparchy of Parma, we will also commemorate this Year of Saint Joseph in union with the whole Catholic Church. I encourage all priests, deacons, nuns, and believers to be involved in the celebration of services, sermons, retreats, and catechesis throughout this upcoming year of 2021 dedicated to Saint Joseph.
Saint Joseph was an important person in the story of the nativity of Jesus Christ, and that is why the Byzantine Catholic Church commemorates him, along with the Holy King David and St. James, the Brother of the Lord, on the Sunday after Christmas. Saint Joseph was betrothed to Mary, the Mother of God. We do not have any of his spoken words in the Gospel, but we can certainly find his concrete action there. When Joseph finds out that the Virgin Mary is pregnant, God says to him: “Joseph, son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home. For it is through the Holy Spirit that this child has been conceived in her. She will bear a son and you are to name Him Jesus, because He will save His people from their sins.” (Mt. 1 :20-21)

The Almighty God wanted to save us from the power of sin and evil. For His plan of salvation, He chose Saint Joseph to be the father and the Virgin Mary, the Theotokos, to be the mother of our Lord Jesus Christ. But Saint Joseph remained perplexed. I think any husband would remain perplexed if he knew that his wife was pregnant without knowing by whom. Can you imagine the situation? It was even more serious back then, because a woman who was found pregnant outside of matrimony would be killed because she had violated the law of Moses. For us this is strange, but it wasn’t strange two-thousand years ago for such a thing to happen to an unfaithful spouse. In this situation, Joseph receives the message from God: “Joseph, son of David, don’t be afraid to take Mary your wife into your home.” (Mt 1 :20) This was the message of God to Joseph, because Joseph was the head of the family; he was responsible for Mary. And what does Saint Joseph do? He was a great man, a hero. Do you know why? Because he was obedient to God. He followed the word of God and he believed the word of God. He could have had a thousand explanations and arguments for why he should not do what God told him, but he did do it; he accepted Mary into his house.

Each one of us is also invited to follow the example of Saint Joseph as a model of hidden life, because even today, on this Christmas in the midst of COVID-19, God is personally saying to you: “Don’t be afraid to take Mary into your life.” She wants to be your mother. Many of you might say: “I don’t need Mary for my salvation”. In one sense you are right, for Jesus Christ alone is the source of our salvation. But God chose the Virgin Mary to be the mother of His Son Jesus Christ, and she accepted it. Thus, our salvation in Jesus comes to us through Mary.

Which one of us chose our biological mother? None of us did, for we received our mother as a gift from God. Everyone is grateful for his own mother, even Jesus. Sometimes we forget this and think our mother was given to us by accident. But nothing is by accident for Christians for everything is directed by the will of God. What is the will of God and what do we need to do with the will of God? We need to fulfill the will of God. Dear brothers and sisters, this is the most important thing: to follow the will of God, even if we are not perfect. It is good that it is not comfortable for us. Saint Joseph and the Most Holy Theotokos are examples for us on how to fulfill the will of God.

Do you know what has happened with Christianity here in the United States? We think that Christianity is similar to going to the supermarket or the mall and we choose this and that. Christianity is not a supermarket, Christianity is not what you want to choose for yourself. Christianity means accepting Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, with His pove1iy in the cave at Bethlehem, with persecutions, and to accept the whole Gospel.

Dear brothers and sisters, I encourage you and your families to meditate on the figure of Saint Joseph and his role as a father within your own families. We need men and women who do not escape their responsibilities but choose the will of God freely, making themselves available to God’s plan with simplicity, humility, and charity. During this time of Christmas, do not be afraid to accept the Mother of God, Mary, into your life as did Saint Joseph. We ask Saint Joseph to help us follow his example of leading a hidden life and to protect our families during this pandemic.

I wish you and your relatives a blessed Christmas and a joyous New Year!

Sincerely yours in Christ,

The Most Rev. Milan Lach, S.J.

Bishop of the Eparchy of Parma

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Pastoral Letter for Pascha 2020

April 12, 2020 By Fr. John R.P. Russell Leave a Comment

Pascha Pastoral Letter 2020

 

Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

Christ is Risen!

This year’s Pascha will stay in our minds until the end of our lives. I know that it is very hard for you to be without the celebration of services on Pascha; it is very hard for me as well. The whole world is in shock over this coronavirus pandemic. The whole world is in quarantine and we are filled with sadness, helplessness, and fear. Back in January we did not pay attention to this coronavirus from Wuhan, China. We had plans for our summer vacations, we were preparing for family celebrations and then everything suddenly changed, literally overnight. There was nothing left of our plans.

Jesus’ disciples had plans as well before His crucifixion. They did not believe that Jesus, after performing so many miracles and healing so many people, would voluntarily surrender himself to be crucified. Three times He predicted to them His suffering, death, and resurrection but they did not understand. Judas betrayed Him and in despair he hung himself. Peter denied Him as well, and John was the only one who remained with Him all the way to the cross. The others scattered away in fear and were hiding at home.

On the third day after His death, however, something unusual happened. The angel appeared to the women who were going to the tomb early in the morning to anoint Jesus’ dead body and found the tomb empty, and the angel said to them: “Do not be amazed! You seek Jesus of Nazareth, the crucified. He has been raised; He is not here.” (Mark 16:6) And it is also written: “On the evening of the first day of the week, when the doors were locked, where the disciples were, for fear of the Jews, Jesus came and stood in the midst and said to them, ‘Peace be with you.’ When He had said this, He showed them His hands and His side. The disciples rejoiced when they saw the Lord. Jesus said to them again, ‘Peace be with you. As the Father has sent Me, so I send you.”‘ (John 20:19-21)

We too are like Jesus’ disciples. The Risen Lord brings joy and peace to us who are all panicking and worrying about the rising numbers of the infected and dead people from this coronavirus. In the time of this crisis, He is removing the fear from within us. It is His gift which helps us to survive, to survive as human beings. Hopefully, after our experience with the outcome of this coronavirus, we will be able to look at life from a different perspective. Life is not in our hands.

Our Holy Father Francis, at the extraordinary blessing of Urbi et Orbi on March 27 in Rome, said: “We have realized that we are in the same boat, all of us fragile and disoriented, but at the same time important and needed, all of us called to row together, each of us in need of comforting the other.”

Dear brothers and sisters, if we believe the joyful news this Pascha morning, that Christ died for us and is risen from the dead, we cannot remain behind the closed doors of our ego and in the clutches of fear and sadness anymore. He is telling us: “Do not be afraid” and also “Peace be to you”. Christ’s resurrection has the power to change our life and is calling us from death to life; it is calling us to love. This is the strength and the mystery of Christianity. Even though you cannot go to church and participate in the divine services at the moment, watch them online from the Cathedral or from your own churches. Do not be afraid and believe that one day we will be able to celebrate together. Rejoice that you can be together with your families. And you who are living by yourselves and feel alone, remember that you are not alone since you are all part of and belong to the Church as brothers and sisters and you are in my prayers. Have courage, do not lose hope. This pandemic will come to an end one day and we will always remember this Pascha in a special way. Rejoice and do not be afraid, this I write to you as your Bishop. I am with you and I pray for you.

Christ is Risen!

The Most Reverend Milan Lach, S.J.
Bishop of the Eparchy of Parma

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Pastoral Letter Lent 2020

February 23, 2020 By Fr. John R.P. Russell Leave a Comment

Dear brothers and sisters,

God gives us the time of the Great Fast (Lent) so we can pause, quiet down, and turn ourselves toward Him. We are invited to grow in our spiritual life, to get closer to our Lord Jesus Christ, and to prepare ourselves well for the celebration of the feast of Pascha – Resurrection.

Missionaries are often asked: “Why did you have to leave for a mission to a foreign country, to a culture of which you are not part? Hadn’t you better stay home to proclaim the Gospel among your own, in your own language?” One answer is this: “People need to be told of what they do not see on themselves, and they need to be told by someone who is capable of seeing from the different perspective, from the outside, from a different culture.” That is why Christ sent his apostles throughout the world.

Our Church is called to be missionary. My intention is to proceed with opening new parishes in our Eparchy, since the goal of the missionary work of the Church is to create communities where the Eucharist can be celebrated. In so doing we are emulating the works of the apostles, especially the apostle Paul in the Acts of the Apostles. In his Encyclical Redemptoris Missio, Pope St. John Paul II tells us, “one of the central purposes of mission is to bring people together in hearing the Gospel, in fraternal communion, in prayer and in the Eucharist.” (¶ 26) I am pleased that the faithful in our parishes often receive the Holy Eucharist. On one hand, you are to be commended for such devotion and commitment.

On the other hand, we recognize that the Holy Eucharist is also a source of strength in our weakness. The Holy Eucharist helps us to be like the one who we follow – Jesus Christ. We will never be quite like him, but we can at least approach Him. Here, in the Eucharist, He offers forgiveness for venial sin and a cure for our shortcomings. Thus, we understand the words of the Holy Father Francis in his Exhortation Evangelii Gaudium, “the Eucharist, although it is the fulness of sacramental life, is not a prize for the perfect but a powerful medicine and nourishment for the weak.” (¶ 47) Of course, the Eucharist is not intended for the forgiveness of mortal sins, which are actually an obstacle blocking us from worthily receiving the Eucharist (this is why we also have the sacrament of Confession). You can check the list of those mortal sins on our website www.parma.org

Recall the story in the Book of Exodus. The Hebrews journeyed to freedom from the slavery of the Egyptians. First, they had to recognize that they were indeed slaves. If they did not recognize this fact, they would never understand the desire for freedom. On their passage to freedom God fed them with manna. This is exactly what the Eucharist is doing for us. It is nurturing us (slaves to sin) on our journey to freedom. But we should also remember that the initial enthusiasm of the Hebrews at receiving manna diminished. In fact, after, this awe-inspiring “bread from heaven,” became for them something rather ordinary. After losing proper perspective, they began to murmur and grumble about almost anything. They were even starting to feel sorry for the slavery they had left in Egypt. That was the reason why God ordered an altar built where they could bring sacrifice for reconciliation. Is there any among us who has the audacity to say that he is free from vices or bad habits? It would be a miracle. Who is untouched by temptations from power, money, prestige, praise, uncommitted relationships, TV, internet, smart devices, pornography, sex, alcohol, or sport?

This underscores the necessity of Confession. The confessional has distinct advantages:

  • It’s the place where, after the thorough examination, I admit my failures and where I am begging God and people for forgiveness (both psychologically and spiritually)
  • It’s the place where I can renew the spirit. My spirit was ignited at my baptism. Reconciliation is like a repetition of baptism. Not literally, but figuratively. Our resolutions have a tendency after a while to become lukewarm, and they need occasionally to get refreshed.
  • Confession is help from above. It is not only the place where we receive forgiveness for our sins, but also a source of strength to resist temptation. This is part of the mystery of the sacrament. Sacrament is a visible sign of God’s invisible grace. I need God’s grace not only as a sinner, but even to give me the strength to avoid sin. Our lives are, after all, an effort to follow Jesus Christ. But what kind of following would it be without Christ helping us. He has chosen you, and He will surely give you everything you need so you can fulfill the call. God will never lead you where he cannot sustain you.
  • Confession has a great psychological effect. Its ironic when people, instead of going to confession, would rather pay big money for all kinds of manmade therapies and counseling. At the same time, they look at Confession as some kind of goofy practice. Well-known psychotherapist Carl Jung said that, among the countless people he treated with therapy, he found nobody who would go to Confession. Priests are delighted to provide this service for free, by hearing your Confession. Not only is it free, but it comes with some measure of expertise and experience – consider the hundreds of Confessions each priest hears every year. Do not underestimate us priests. Many of us are well qualified and educated, and all have acquired a certain pastoral “wisdom” by hundreds of hours hearing the stories of people who are hurt or broken and in need of healing.

Maybe in our Eparchy we too need to rediscover the grace of Confession. Perhaps in your life this sacrament of healing has been long-forgotten. I sincerely  and warmly recommend to all the faithful in this time of the Great Fast to go back to Confession and to get ready for Pascha. You can find some helpful material on our eparchial website www.parma.org

Brothers and sisters, I pray that we all discover the awesome power of the sacrament of Reconciliation as the authentic way of penance, and as a precious meeting with the loving and forgiving Christ.

 

+Milan

Bishop of the Eparchy of Parma

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Pastoral Letter for Christmas 2019

December 25, 2019 By Fr. John R.P. Russell Leave a Comment

Dear brothers and sisters,Pastoral Letter for Christmas 2019

In these days, we officially come to the conclusion of our jubilee celebration for the 50th anniversary of the establishment of the Eparchy of Parma by Pope Paul VI in February 1969. It is a time to be grateful for all that our Lord has given us, as well as a time to reflect on the direction we will take in our eparchy. I have mentioned these ideas in my pastoral letters, both at the beginning of the jubilee year in January and at the beginning of the church year in September.

In these days, we also celebrate the feast of the Nativity of Our Lord Jesus Christ, which is the expression of God’s grace. God the Father again offers us his love through his Son in the Holy Spirit. The mission of the church is to proclaim this joyful news to all people and to encourage each one of us to live our faith in our Lord Jesus Christ, the Son, who was incarnate by the Holy Spirit and the Virgin Mary. He became one of us, he walked among us, and he walks alongside us still.

Our Byzantine liturgy offers us the liturgical texts that reveal to us the true meaning of Christmas, preceded by the preparatory period of 40 days of fasting and prayer, called the Philip’s Fast (Filipovka). A few texts in this pre-festive season help to bring forth the deeper meaning of this liturgical season and, in this way, help us to understand the mystery of Christ’s birth. The stichera from Matins for the Pre-Feast of the Nativity of Our Lord for Dec. 20 is one example. It summarizes our profession of faith in Jesus Christ, who is at the center of our faith and of our life. It is a very profound and beautiful text that was composed with passages from the Word of God, which is the source of our Christian life. It is a stichera that we sing but, more importantly, it is the stichera that we are supposed to live in our personal lives and in our families. I offer you some thoughts that are in my heart for your reflection, because they render the true meaning of this feast day.

We sing the following: “Make ready, cave, for the ewe lamb comes, bearing Christ in her womb. Receive, manger, Him Who by a Word has released the dwellers of earth from lawlessness. Shepherds, abiding in the fields, bear witness to the fearful wonder; Magi from Persia, offer to the King, gold, myrrh, and frankincense, for the Lord has appeared from a Virgin Mother, and she, bending over Him as a handmaiden, worshiped Him as He lay in her arms, saying to Him: How were You sown as seed in me? How have You grown within me, my Deliverer and my God?”

As in other sticheras, we find here not only persons as the protagonists of the story, but objects as examples and figures of different realities. What do the persons or the objects in this text truly represent: the cave, the manger, the shepherds, the magi, and the Theotokos, who is called “the ewe lamb” and “Virgin Mother”?

This stichera paraphrases passages from the gospels of Luke (cf. Lk 2:1-20) and Matthew (cf. Mt 2:1-12) and includes symbolism that is worthy to consider.

Let’s take a look at the cave that is being addressed in the second person, “Make ready, cave.” In the original Greek, these words mean to “get ready with reverence” or to “get ready appropriately.” The message to the cave to “get ready” and to prepare, is the same message that is given to the church and to us. We, too, must “get ready.” To receive whom? To receive Christ, the Lamb, who is brought by his Mother, the ewe lamb, the same words used to refer to Mary in the sticheras of Great and Holy Week.

Every Christian is supposed to get ready in the proper way, with a good confession, before receiving the Holy Gifts — the Eucharist at the Divine Liturgy. Let this phrase resonate in our heart: “Make ready, prepare yourself.”

And then let us ask ourselves: How did we prepare for the feast of the Nativity of our Lord? How do we prepare for receiving the Holy Eucharist during the year? When was the last time we went to confession?

If we want to receive the real Christ in the Eucharist every Sunday, we should go to holy confession at least once a month. Otherwise, we are receiving the Holy Gifts unworthily and we are risking our salvation. When we feel that we are not in the grace of receiving Holy Communion because we did not forgive someone, or we are holding grudges, or living adulterously, or because of some other serious sin, then it is better not to receive Holy Communion, to stay in the pew, and then to ask the priest to hear our confession. This, too, is the real preparation of the cave for the coming of Christ, according to the teaching of the Catholic Church.

The image of the manger, as we know from iconography, symbolizes the tomb, the sarcophagus, and foretells the death of Jesus. The shepherds, who stay overnight on the fields in seclusion, are challenged to be the witnesses, to move from isolation to community. The magi are paralleled with the myrrh-bearing women. They bring the gifts to the One, who one day will be received by another cave, by another manger: his tomb.

Just as the image of the cave, which represents the church, must prepare and “get ready,” so do we, this Christmas and each day of our Christian life, need to be ready. For whom or for what? To worthily receive Christ and to witness to him with reverence, not only to ourselves but also to others.

This is where I want to turn your attention: Christmas has become the subject in this world to profane celebration. It has become very pagan and it is the subject of business, not only in consumer society but at its core. Let us not forget that we are celebrating Christ and him alone. We should never forget that the most valuable gift for Christians is Christ himself.

The message is clear. We must witness Christ and live and act as Christians, not in isolation or in the small group where we feel safe, but in the church community, with all the positives and negatives that we have. Let us try during this Christmas season, in peace and without fear, to see clearly the source of unity within ourselves, with others, and with the Lord. Also let us try to see the obstacles that we have in our relationship with the Lord, with others, and within ourselves: the sin of isolation in our parishes, the sin of humiliating others, the sin of gossip, or the sin of ignoring the good.

This Christmas, and at the beginning of the new civil year, I would like to encourage you to never get tired of starting to love again. The reason is simple. We are Christians. Our God perpetually loves his people. He desires nothing but our salvation. Our faith constantly reminds us that God loves us and he gives us the opportunity to love every day of our lives. This is why I am encouraging you, brothers and sisters, to look at your life with faith, hope and love. Search for small and big signs of rebirth, signs of new life, which are given to us by God.

I pray all priests, deacons, nuns, and faithful have a blessed feast of the birth of Christ and a happy New Year.

+Milan Lach, SJ
Bishop of the Eparchy of Parma

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Pastoral Letter to the Faithful of the Eparchy of Parma at the Beginning of the Church Year

September 8, 2019 By Fr. John R.P. Russell Leave a Comment

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

The celebration of the golden anniversary of the founding of our Eparchy of Parma is slowly winding down. Throughout this anniversary year, with our spiritual programs and festivities, we have expressed gratitude to God for His many blessings and graces in the past fifty years. At the same time, our great anniversary also motivates us to ponder our future — how do we want to move forward? Growing and advancing is not about starting from scratch, but about taking our cues from who we are and what we have at our disposal, and having the courage to see the future with hope. With this letter, I wish to present to you my vision for our future.

The most precious treasure that we have in our Ruthenian Catholic Eparchy of Parma is you, our faithful, from our youngest children to our eldest believers. For you, we toil in the vineyard of the Lord by proclaiming the crucified and resurrected Christ. You are that pearl of great price, for which we are investing in our future by the building up of the Kingdom of God, irrespective of the fatigue, energy or finances that it may entail, because every human life is a gift of God. Other material things or finances, even if they are important in life, are secondary to me. The Book of Genesis teaches that man was created in the image and likeness of God. Therefore, every single person deserves respect in our eparchy. Human life is and should be of the greatest value, from its conception to the moment of natural death.

The demographics of our eparchy have changed dramatically in the past fifty years. The common experience that was lived out in our parishes over this time in the twelve states of the Midwest, from Ohio to Nebraska, is no longer true today due to many factors. According to surveys we have conducted in the past three years, an average of 2,000 faithful regularly attend the Sunday liturgies in our 29 parishes. Of these 2,000, 300 are children, age 12 and under. Many of our believers leave our eparchy for study or work; others move south to retire. Many of our faithful are burdened with old age or illness, and thus are not able to attend our churches. Many of our brothers and sisters have left our parishes because of moral scandals that did not bypass our Church.

The future of our parishes resides the Spirit of the Gospel that expresses itself in hospitality and openness to life. Therefore, every new visitor at our liturgies should be welcomed warmly. It is my hope and prayer that this spirit of hospitality and openness to new believers will reign in our parishes. We must not lock ourselves in our own world, with our own problems. That won’t help us. I strongly encourage you to reach out. We cannot do without outreach. For example, one of the many possibilities is to be open to Hispanic communities, offering the Divine Liturgy in Spanish in each of our three regions. Let us not be afraid to be open to the diversity of the faithful and of cultures, for only this is the way to a flourishing future. I am firmly convinced that our Byzantine Catholic Church in the United States has a future, because it offers the Gospel, the joyful message of the living Jesus Christ, through a millennia-old authentic experience. We must let others know about it. The following concrete steps will help us to accomplish this vision.

The priority of my ministry as the bishop is to proclaim the Word of God — Jesus Christ and His Kingdom. God’s Word must become for everyone in our eparchy a daily meal, as something without which we cannot live. If we depart from the Logos, the Word of God, we will run the risk of our churches becoming social clubs where people enjoy being together, but do not need anyone else in their company. The Church is not a club; the Church is a community of baptized brothers and sisters. The Church is in motion; she is a pilgrim, moving constantly toward her heavenly fulfillment. Yes, oftentimes the Church is and will be humiliated and rejected, as Christ Himself was. The maturing of God’s Word in us should lead to spiritual fruits. We must be fruitful in faith. The tree is known by its fruit. If we are spiritually sterile, we will have no future. The five points of Theophan the Recluse on the causes of the weakening of faith, which I published in the Pastoral Letter at the beginning of our 50th anniversary in January 2019 and encouraged priests to incorporate in their homilies, are still relevant, and we need to use them as guidance in our personal spiritual lives.*

While in the southwest portion of our eparchy, we have some new faith communities that are in need of priests to establish new parishes, the unsustainability of some parishes in other parts of the eparchy, which are not able to maintain themselves and their priest, will lead me to make the difficult decision for merger or closure. For the good of the faithful, gradually, we will have to examine all of the regions of the eparchy and see what is the way forward. There will be clear criteria for the establishment of new parishes, as well as criteria for assessing the vitality of parishes, such as membership, financial stability, demand and availability of priests for pastoral work, which may lead to recognizing the need for a merger or closure. As I mentioned, parish closure is one of the most difficult decisions a bishop has to make. Accordingly, I have always been and remain open to dialogue. However, at the same time, I am forced to act in order to stop the severe financial bleeding we are experiencing. In this type of situation, it is not wise to attempt to save a building for the sake of the building; we need to stabilize ourselves as a community first.

Today, people across the United States are thirsty and hungry for God and for the spiritual life that our Byzantine Catholic Church can offer them. There is so much potential. We need to get into colleges, to be with the young, to have a vigorous presence in social networks. We need to focus more attention on families and help them with raising their children in the faith. We need to be more flexible and look for new ways to reach people. We need to pray to the Holy Spirit to show us what to do and how to do it. Non-believers must be challenged and awakened in their hearts by our authentic testimony of life, to the extent that they, too, will desire to become members of our parishes.

I cannot do this alone. An undertaking such as this requires holy priests and deacons. The situation has also changed in the United States, as our ancient tradition of married priests has been reinstated. In our eparchy, most of our 23 active priests are married. Within the next eight years, we will need 17 new priests to care for the faithful. I will not invest our funds primarily in buildings and maintenance. Rather, I want to invest funds in high-quality priestly preparation and formation of young men from the United States, who want to serve Christ in our eparchy, as well as in priests from Europe who will come to help us. I have already been in contact with eparchies in Ukraine, Hungary, Croatia, and Slovakia to this end. Furthermore, we must reassess the financial support for our priests, so that they may have adequate sustenance for themselves and their families. We must also care financially for our retired priests, who have served for many decades in our eparchy. My expectation of our deacons into the future is that they will be men of the Church, who are willing to participate in the fundamental mission of the eparchy, to beautify the liturgies with their singing, to bear witness with their family life, and to be particularly supportive of the Church with their gifts and talents. From the nuns of Christ the Bridegroom Monastery in Burton, Ohio, I expect that their monastic life will encourage all of us to focus our attention fully on Jesus Christ and to remind us that the fulfilment of deep longings cannot be found in the world, but only in our union with God.

I personally renew my intention and dedication to fulfill the essence of my episcopal motto — To serve — with deeds more than with words, for to minister is to take part in the mission of Christ. I want to be an example as St. Paul was for his churches. I greatly desire and pray that all the priests of our eparchy participate in the mission of Christ for the good and salvation of our faithful. We must acquire the same attitude of ministry that Christ had in His service toward His disciples, which is the only right way for us to follow Him. To serve means to love. He who does not love will never serve another person, not at home, or in his family, or in the parish, or on the street. Love must be paramount, even when we are confronted with finding solutions to unpleasant and difficult problems in the Church or in the family.

More than ever, we need to remain faithful to the Catholic Church. I want to support and promote fidelity to the teachings of the Catholic Church through our Byzantine tradition, which manifests itself in the liturgy, in spirituality, in the heritage of the Church Fathers, and in the discipline of the Church. All Christians are called to divinization, that is, to intimate union with God, for this is the purpose of our spiritual life. The Church offers us the means to achieve this end: prayer, fasting, and doing charitable deeds for the poor and the abandoned.

In this spirit, the call of Christ to convert (metanoia) is always pertinent. We need to reanimate in ourselves the understanding that, as a Byzantine Catholic Church, we are a community of sinners, who have undeservedly received God’s mercy and grace. We achieve this through the sacramental life, in which the Church mediates salvation. You, the faithful, whenever there is a need, approach your priests with trust in asking for the sacrament of reconciliation. It would cause me great joy if you were to avail yourselves of the sacrament of confession once a month. We all need to experience God’s mercy and the forgiving love of the Heavenly Father in order to be able to forgive each other’s transgressions and, thus prepared, to receive worthily the Most Holy Gifts of the Body and Blood of our most pure Lord Jesus Christ.

The Divine Liturgy is the culmination of liturgical life in all its beauty and fullness, highlighted by song and iconography. Cherish the beauty of our prostopinije, our liturgical chant. We constantly need to work on it. Let us not neglect our traditional liturgical prayers in our churches, whether it be vespers, morning prayers, canonical hours, or molebens and akathists. I encourage my brother priests and deacons to be an example for the faithful with their liturgical prayers and in their personal life. May God’s temple be a place of prayer where sacred silence is kept and appreciated. This is a matter close to my heart.

An indispensable part of the life of the Church and our eparchy is the issue of temporal goods and finances. However, this issue is secondary, which is why I mention it only at the end of my letter. In the past, the chancery often offset the debts of parishes that were not able to pay the required amount to the priests’ pension fund or health insurance plan. At that time, the eparchy had funds at its disposal to loan to parishes. Over time, however, the eparchial finances were used up and were never replenished. Thus, the situation today is markedly different. The chancery can no longer afford to cover for the arrears of parishes because it does not have the requisite funds. In fact, it needs to stabilize itself first and find a new space for its own operations. It is the expectation, however, that the indebted parishes will gradually repay their debts to the chancery in the near future. The amount that is owed to eparchial operations is $2.5 million, including $900,000 for past due assessments, Horizons, contributions to the pension fund and health insurance, and $1.6 million for the repayment of loans from the Parishes Together Fund.

Beloved faithful of our eparchy, to implement the outlined vision and overcome the challenges, we need one another. The priests, deacons and myself alone are not enough. While I am willing to lead and to serve, all of us need to embrace our future together. I hope that you will share my optimism that our future is bright, but we must together embark on the right path. Please pray for me that I may receive the gifts of the Holy Spirit, especially the gift of discernment. I pray for you constantly that, by being united in Christ, in the end we will all meet in His heavenly home.

 

✠Milan, Eparchial Bishop of Parma

 

 


*  The five points of Theophan the Recluse on the causes of the weakening of faith:

  1. Leaving the church and its grace-giving means, which starves the root of the Christian life, disconnecting it from its sources. In this way it wilts, just as a flower does when it is not watered.
  2. Failure to pay heed to one’s bodily nature, which opens the door for passions to take hold of the soul.
  3. Forgetting the main goal of life: People do not have direction and lack the means to achieve union with God.
  4. Neglecting the spiritual life: Prayer, the fear of God and conscience are overshadowed by earthly cares.
  5. Neglecting to put into practice Christian principles and God’s way of life.

 

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